So, This guy asked me to be his girlfriend, Hes really cute and sweet. The thing is he got out of a relationship recently and a lot of people say I home wreaked but I didnt :( I dont want to be know as a home wreaker but I really want to be with him. What do i do?
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Ask him if you two could just wait a while before actually getting together, then keep the fact that you two are “talking” lowkey. Tell him what people have been saying to back yourself up if he’s against it, and hopefully he’ll understand.
People keep telling me that me and my boyfriend arent going to last, expecially during the summer. I've been dating him for almost 5 months and i've done more with him than any other guy. Like memories. I've only been in one other serious relationship before him. I dont plan on leaving him for another guy and I want to be with him for the summer. It bothers him just as much as it bothers me. It just really gets to me when people say things like that. What should I do?
Anonymous
Have faith in your relationship and disregard everything that they’re saying. Next time they tell one of you that, look at them and ask why. I can bet your ass they’ll give you some sort of irrelevant, ridiculous answer. Lol I hate it when people say that type of shit honestly. It doesn’t matter what they’re saying, it doesn’t matter what they think of you or how much they shove their silly assumptions in your faces. What matters is how the both of you think of your relationship, and how badly you want to make it memorable. I’m sorry if this sounds cheesy, lol i can’t think right now.
Prove them wrong! Rub your relationship in their faces throughout the summer, and really just be happy. That should be enough to back yourselves up, they’re all just jealous, resentful single bitches. LOL
so let me start off by saying i was only in one relationship that lasted an year. i really loved her or thats how i felt. now an year passed. i dont know if i really loved her or not. im unsure what love is. how can i ever be sure i am in love? i only remember being jealous of every boy and even her close girl friends. i never really had a sexual urge for her but there have been times where i got hard. please teach me, what is love?
Anonymous
Bruh you’re asking a 14 year old girl what love is.
Lol anyways, if you have to question it, then I wouldn’t think so. From what I’ve been told, you’ll know when you’re “in love.” It’s not something you’ll be second guessing over, you’ll be fucking hung the fuck over by this girl if you were in love with her. You’d crave her company. But I don’t know, loving someone and being IN love with someone are two totally different things. Guaranteed, there’s no doubt that you loved her, but IN love with her? Who knooooows
I’m sorry I couldn’t answer your question very well, LOL. I don’t know what love is myself, so
Recently, I let my boyfriend touch my breasts without my bra. I felt as if we were ready to move on from little kiddy play and to more mature things. However... it seemed to change him. Yesterday he wanted to see my breasts so bad he ripped my shirt. I quickly told him to get out of my house due to shock but he started to sweet talk me and nibble around. He actually put his tongue onto my areola area and I felt both horny but I knew it was wrong. I told him to go home and he did. What should I D
Anonymous
Set boundaries with your boyfriend, this is really just one of those things that can only be solved by sitting him down and talking to him. Like REAAALLLY talking to him, and telling him that you’re not ready. If he can’t respect these boundaries, then that could be looked at as a major problem. Don’t give in, or let him take advantage of you just because you’re too afraid to say otherwise, really talk to him. Until then, whenever he tries anything, just seem uninterested and whatever about it, maybe he’ll get the message.
but remember to actually talk to him about it, so he doesn’t get all pissy assuming that he just fucking sucks at turning you on or some shit LOL
What do you think about "summer love". You know, when you just go out with some people for like a week or so, because you won't see eachother after and all. Do you think this thing can lead to something real? Or else. I mean, I'd like to know your point of view on that. Thanks, have a nice day ! :)
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Well I mean, it could. Shit happens, the best relationships are the most unexpected ones in my opinion. I don’t really know how to answer this one though…. It takes me a while to actually develop legitimate feelings for a person, and even then I would consider what would happen AFTER I wasn’t able to see them anymore, and that would really influence how I look at that person. I feel like if I was to experience this sort of thing, that person would just STAY a summer fling. I wouldn’t put too much effort into keeping in touch or making it work after we’d gone separate ways.
But idk, it reallllly just depends on my feelings for them. Just I wouldn’t expect much out of it.
I’ll answer the rest later tonight guuuuuys.
Would you ever let a boy (not your boyfriend, more of just a curious teen) touch your breasts or show it to them?
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Hello, so my boyfriend is taking me for granted.... But I'm so lost, I love him so much that I don't know what to do :(. It hurts so much, what can I do?
Anonymous
That’s a hard oneeeee. Well the best option is to simply talk to him and tell him how you feel, maybe not at first straight up telling him you feel like he’s taking you for granted, but maybe pointing out a few things contributing to why you think that, then just say it if he’s still not getting it….. If not, stop giving him as much as attention as you usually do. He’ll size up if he’s smart or talk to you about it, but that’s just my guess. But honestly, it’s best to just avoid fuckin with the games and confront him. From that you’ll learn alot about him, like whether or not he can handle confrontation or if he’ll make the effort to better the relationship. But that’s just my opinion. Good luck :(
Hnestly what happened between you and tyler? I mean I'm in a relationship and I'm scared that he and I wont last long considering you and tyler seemed perfect for each other and ended it..
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I just needed some time off, I won’t go into details but I just felt like we needed some time apart for a while, just a break. Like a legitimate break, not one of those bullshit ones where we just never talk again. I still like him, and we still talk, just I have alot of things going on atm and I need space for bit. I’m not open to anyone else atm besides Tyler, so……………
Have faith in your relationship! And thanks I guess…? LOL
so there is this sophmore guy that i think is really cute. and he doesnt have a facebook. or tumblr. i dont even think he has anythin, honestly. he stares ALOT. but im not sure what he is staring at. i really want to talk to him but im scared. i need something to happen. im getting really impatient. i want to s=give off some kind of hint.
Anonymous
Considering that all he does i stare at you, i don’t know if he’s gonna make a move soon…..He seems interested, so take the initiative and look back at him and smile at him or something. If he doesn’t do anything, continue to Do that a few times, and when you’re ready, go up to him and talk to him.
